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6 things I wish I knew before setting foot on a cruise ship that all first-timers should keep in mind

21 October 2026 at 15:48
Left: The author on the top deck of a cruise ship with wind in her hair Right: The same cruise ship deck seen at night with colorful lights
The reporter's first cruise was a seven-day voyage aboard Royal Caribbean's Wonder of the Seas.

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  • If I could take my first cruise again, I'd pick up a case of water on my way to the port.
  • I'd pack a bar of laundry soap.
  • And I'd leave my formal dress at home.

The closest thing I'd seen to a cruise ship was the Staten Island ferry.

That changed in April 2022, when I left my home in NYC to take my first cruise. I flew to Fort Lauderdale, Florida, for a seven-night voyage on one of the largest cruise ships in the world, Royal Caribbean's Wonder of the Seas. We sailed to Roatán, Honduras; Cozumel and Costa Maya, Mexico; and Royal Caribbean's private island in the Bahamas.

I had a good time, but some things would've made my trip easier, cheaper, and more comfortable. Here's what I think all first-time cruisers should know before setting sail.

Some cruise ship cabins, like those at the front of the ship, can be rockier than others.
Inside a cruise ship cabin there's a bed in front of a window showing the front of the ship
The reporter's room was at the front of the ship.

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Before booking, I should have researched how a cabin's location can affect how much motion you feel while the ship is moving.

My ocean-view cabin was at the front of the ship, and I felt more movement than I expected. As a first-time cruiser, I found it uncomfortably rocky. Shaky nights made it tough to sleep.

Several seasoned cruisers on the voyage told me that the front of the ship was one of the worst places to feel motion. Higher decks in the middle of the ship felt calmer and more stable.

If you are as prone to motion sickness as I am, I suggest choosing a room in the middle of the ship.

The restaurants included in the cruise rate had a variety of high-quality dishes, so splurging on specialty restaurants wasn't necessary.
Shrimp, rice, tomatoes, asparagus on a white plate

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One of the most distinctive things about cruising is that most meals, snacks, and drinks are included in the cruise rate.

However, on Wonder of the Seas and many other mega-ships, more than a dozen restaurants with specialty offerings, such as sushi, are not included and incur additional charges, either as a one-time fee or per dish. I paid $40 to $60 for each specialty meal. 

I reserved all specialty restaurants before my trip, but I found myself wishing I hadn't booked so many once I realized the included restaurants offered a wide range of delicious food.

There were multiple buffets, and the main dining room served a three-course meal with changing menu items each night.

These included options that satisfied every craving. One of the best meals I had was in the main dining room.

Since I booked so many specialty restaurants, I didn't have time to try all the buffets or eat in the main dining room more than once. If I had known they'd be so satisfying, I would've saved money and eaten more of the included meals instead.

Formal nights weren't enforced, so don't waste luggage space on nice outfits if you don't want to participate.
A formal night onboard Wonder of the seas cruise ship

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I have an aversion to dressing up, but I knew my cruise included formal nights, so I brought one nice dress. After the first formal night, however, I learned that the dress code wasn't strictly enforced. I noticed people wore a variety of outfits, from suits and evening gowns to T-shirts and track pants.

I was happy to relax my look on the other two formal nights, but the dress felt like a waste of the limited space in my carry-on suitcase. If I had known it wasn't necessary, I would've left it at home and brought multiple other articles in its place.

Though it was a Caribbean cruise, I got chilly on the top decks, so bring some warm clothing.
The author wearing pants and a sweater on the top deck of a cruise ship

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My favorite times to be on the top decks of the ship were early in the morning and late at night, when there weren't as many crowds. These were also the coldest, windiest parts of the day.

Instead of my shiny, poofy, formal dress, I should've brought another pair of pants and another sweater to keep me warm. Since I didn't, I ended up wearing the same pants and sweater nearly every morning and evening.

Laundry on board can be expensive, so consider bringing a bar of laundry soap to save money.
side by side photos of a full (L) and mostly-empty closet on a cruise ship

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Since I brought only a carry-on luggage, I hoped to get some laundry done on board, but then I saw the pricing sheet.

Living in New York City, most of the apartments I've rented haven't had in-unit laundry, so I'm used to paying to have my clothes washed. But rather than pricing by weight, as local New York laundromats do, Royal Caribbean charged for each article of clothing. Each shirt was $4, and a dress cost $9. Most surprisingly, washing just one pair of underwear would have cost $2.

I thought this would add up fast, so I didn't do any laundry on my trip. In hindsight, I should have brought a bar of laundry soap to hand-wash a few things. 

I would've brought my own case of water if I knew it was allowed.
A case of water bottles in the author's stateroom on the world's largest cruise ship

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To ensure I stayed hydrated throughout my trip, I opted for the water bottle package while booking trip extras like restaurant reservations and excursions. For $16, Royal Caribbean delivered a case of 24 water bottles to my cabin. It seemed expensive for a pack of water, but I thought this was just part of the price of cruising.

When I was boarding the ship, though, I noticed people carrying their own cases of water. That's when I realized Royal Caribbean allows guests to bring their own nonalcoholic beverages.

If I had known this, I would've brought my own water and saved a few bucks.

If I had known these details before my cruise, I could have had a better time while saving some money. Hopefully, my findings will help other first-time cruisers.
The author at a port in front of the world's largest cruise ship
The author poses at a port in front of the world's largest cruise ship

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While I enjoyed parts of my cruise, some of this knowledge could've made my trip much more comfortable.

On my next cruise, I'll remember what I learned about cabin locations, formal nights, and cool, windy mornings sailing in the Caribbean Sea.

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De Tom Cruise a Pedro Sánchez: el eterno mito del hombre que no sabe (o no puede) bailar

21 October 2026 at 04:30

Si la escritora Vicki Baum estaba en lo cierto al decir que uno de los atajos hacia la felicidad es el baile, muchos hombres agradecerán saber que no es necesario que esa danza sea especialmente memorable. De ser así, ese trayecto se volvería mucho más complicado. ¿Por qué hay tantos hombres que temen bailar? ¿Y por qué a tantas mujeres a las que un mal baile les genera verdadero rechazo? En Sorry I Don’t Dance: Why Men Refuse to Move (Perdona, pero yo no bailo: por qué los hombres se niegan a mover el esqueleto) (Oxford University Press), Maxine Leeds Craig se pregunta precisamente cómo, tras haber estado asociada la masculinidad durante un tiempo con la gracia, la danza y el movimiento, en la actualidad se considera el baile y la masculinidad se han vuelto incompatibles. “La razón por la que tantos hombres evitan bailar tiene que ver con cómo se percibe su sexualidad. Evitar parecer gay es central a la hora de representar la masculinidad normativa. El miedo a parecer homosexuales les limita a la hora de andar y de gesticular. Determina cómo bailan y evita que algunos bailen jamás”, asegura. En muchísimas películas estadounidenses, especialmente adolescentes, hay una escena primordial en la que el protagonista es pillado en su habitación haciendo algo que considera humillante e íntimo: bailar al ritmo de su canción favorita.

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Tom Cruise, superestrella global, reinterpretando el célebre baile de 'Risky Business' en el programa estadounidense de Jennifer Hudson. No gustó a todo el mundo.

Dal flop-capolavoro di Tom Cruise al nuovo Ragione e Sentimento: i film da vedere ora

20 October 2026 at 14:04

Si può misurare il valore di un film esclusivamente dal suo incasso? Commercialmente è di sicuro un indicatore fondamentale, ma guai, in ogni caso, considerarlo l’unico. Ci sono film altamente preziosi per contributo artistico e pregnanza dei messaggi, che però vengono snobbati dal pubblico, quindi esclusi da grandi incassi. Prendiamo Digger, che purtroppo è entrato a far parte di questo controverso pantheon. Flopparono, in ordine sparso, anche cult e capolavori storici come Fight Club, Il Mago di Oz, Le Ali della Libertà, La Cosa, Blade Runner e Citizen Kane. Il flop del momento diretto dal Premio Oscar Alejandro González Iñárritu, prodotto con 125 milioni di dollari, finora ne ha incassati solo 41 mln, risultato matematicamente tragico, sì, ma c’è di più.

Con la vicenda del petroliere miliardario artefice del disastro ambientale definitivo a coronamento dei cambiamenti climatici, Tom Cruise offre la sua performance più ricca e sublime, e insieme al Presidente Usa fittizio e gravemente ammalato di John Goodman sarà probabilmente in lizza agli Oscar 2027. A parte cast luminoso su carta e perfetto in scena, il regista utilizza uno schema da metateatro che parte dal suo Birdman e va su lungo un’iperbole narrativa che fino al culmine non smette di puntarci il dito. Digger ci dice in maniera sobria e spietata che il disastro è una nostra responsabilità. Colpa di certe élite di potere economico e politico, ma anche nostra perché negli anni abbiamo sorseggiato qualsiasi frottola. Film urticante anche per le coscienze di tanti critici. Non a caso l’ascesa di Digger, audace vecchietto gattaro più egoista di uno Scrooge, cavalca la sua “bomba” come uno Stranamore di Kubrik, e ascende come un Kane di Welles. Ma questo nuovo riccone sventola l’antica pala del nonno per fare la morale sullo scavare per il petrolio, con l’ipocrisia del suo nomignolo Digger (scavatore in inglese). Paradossale l’insuccesso economico del film rientra in un periodo storico oggettivamente preoccupante dove anche il popolo si spaventa, e il pubblico latita perché forse di moniti da aggiungere alla propria paura non ne vuol sentire. Audacemente controversa e tragicamente autorionica la realtà di fatto: il film è di un messicano, mentre lo interpreta da mattatore assoluto un illustre statunitense che fa parte di una setta. Viva il Maestro Iñárritu, viva Digger e viva pure l’Arte di Cruise!

Tornando in Italia c’è un’altra opera controversa e importante, anche per l’ottimo cast. L’estranea di Paolo Strippoli ha un ritmo e una struttura narrativa decisamente horror. Ma non è esattamente questo. Chiamamola un non-horror questa crescente tragedia famigliare che vede una ricca madre di famiglia ricattata da una donna luciferina in vari momenti difficilissimi. Ricorda per tensione e temperatura il primo Omen e Rosemary’s Baby. Grazie a una sapiente opera di comunicazione è stato spinto come drammatico, perché l’horror in Italia è sempre considerato di serie B, ma in fondo è servito a renderlo rappresentante italiano per la corsa alla nomination Oscar per il Miglior film straniero. Strada ancora lunghissima che forse sarebbe stata più adatta a Gioia mia di Margherita Spampinato. Ma conta poco. Il nuovo lavoro dell’autore barese ci distende su un’ascesa nel Male attraverso tentazioni di vita o di morte. Ha il bell’ardire di soppesare continuamente la nostra anima con quella della madre ricattata – una matura Jasmine Trinca – da una Valeria Bruni Tedeschi inedita, sottilmente diabolica, come l’insospettabile Bene ricercato nel danno minore. L’estranea, come Digger, è uno di quei film che fanno parlare e discutere a fine visione.

Con Primetime invece scendiamo negli inferi morali di una tivù americana sfacciata e a caccia di spettacolarità senza freno. Dietro alla morale dello smascherare predatori sessuali pedofili in diretta televisiva, il giornalista senza scrupoli di Robert Pattinson divora odiens e tappe in carriera, ma il prezzo da pagare per l’ambizione sarà sorprendente e altissimo. Qui in reference potrebbe aiutarvi Nightcrawler, ma il viaggio tra i riflettori più oscuri del successo televisivo ordito da Lance Oppenheim e prodotto da A24 graffia subdolo quanto i suoi personaggi, mostrandoci nuovi nessi perversi tra predatori e giustizieri. Istant movie feroce e sfidante.

Prima dell’ultimo titolo alleggeriamo in ironia il nostro cammino, stavolta, con il film bonus Street Fighter, di Kitao Sakurai. Ennesima messa in scena cineamatografica del celebre videogioco del 1987, ma forse stavolta si è imbroccata la strada giusta. Siam sempre sul livello di un “film di menare”, si dice in gergo nerd, quindi non aspettatevi illuminazioni particolari. I personaggi delle primissime versioni dei videogame originali prendono vita in una storia organica e sensata, seppur sviluppata con troppi dialoghi deliranti e anabolizzati di testosterone da far sorridere, ma fa parte di questo gioco. Soprattutto può essere nostalgico amarcord per gli ex-ragazzi oggi quarantenni e cinquantenni del pubblico, che quel gioco lo conobbero bene fuori casa tra sale giochi in lire e gettoni, e al computer di fronte alla televisione catodica, caricandolo su cassetta. Forse suonerà come arabo per i lettori millenial, ma googolate pure. Intrattenimento scacciapensieri, coloratissimo e allegramente pacchiano e muscolare. Tra i protagonisti anche il rapper 50 Cent, nei panni di Mike, il simil-Tyson elettronico dei suoi anni più gloriosi.

Chiudiamo con uno sguardo a Ragione e Sentimento, altra ennesima versione da grande schermo, davvero pregiata e moderna nella sua rappresentazione del romanzo originale di Jane Austen. Riuscendo in un miracolo simile a quello del Piccole Donne di Greta Gerwig, l’opera seconda di Georgia Oakley aggiunge un pizzico di vibrazioni emotive tra le due donne complici e sorelle interpetate da Daisy Edgar-Jones e Esmé Creed-Miles. Di entrambe sentiremo parlare molto, perchè sono attrici prodigiose. Ma pure il resto del cast è monumentale nel lavoro fatto, insieme a una magnifica messa in scena che potremmo sentire nominata divere volte ai prossimi Oscar. Consigliatissimo anche agli uomini per capire meglio le signore. Esce in sala il 25 ottobre. #PEACE

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I took my first Disney cruise without kids and loved it. There are 3 things I'd do differently next time.

18 October 2026 at 13:11
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The author took her first cruise trip on the Disney Wish.

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  • My friend and I have 7 kids between us, including 3 sets of twins. We took a Disney cruise alone.
  • I loved the adults-only spaces, trivia games, spa treatments, and relaxing on Disney's private island.
  • I'm already planning another Disney cruise with my kids, though I might prefer going without them.

"You've never been on a cruise?" my friend basically yelled at me while we were planning an adults-only trip away from our kids. She insisted that cruising with her grandparents as an adult was one of the best trips she's ever taken.

So, despite being a little terrified of being aboard essentially a floating skyscraper with thousands of people, I agreed to a Disney cruise for just the two of us.

Honestly, it was so much fun that I'm already planning another Disney cruise with my kids — though I'm not sure I want to give up the adults-only version.

It was such an easy getaway

My family is known for taking really elaborate vacations. One time we stayed on a remote island near Sicily, which is an active volcano. It took us three flights and a long ferry ride to get there, but it was totally worth it to see the lava at night.

This trip was different. We took a flight from Boston to Orlando, boarded the Disney Wish, and after that, we didn't have to think about anything. We have seven kids between the two of us (including three sets of twins), and the ease of the Disney cruise was exactly what we both needed.

There were activities nonstop, and you could join any of them at any point. I took a quick class to learn how to draw Ursula, we participated in so many trivia games with other adults, and stopped to take photos with characters — who are all over the boat all the time — to send home to our kids.

I really liked that almost everything was included

Part of its ease was that most everything was included, so there were few extra costs. For example, all meals at the themed restaurants were part of the package, and we could order as many dishes as we wanted. Non-alcoholic beverages are also included, and you get room service 24/7.

I especially liked the buffet-style meals at Marceline Market because I could mix in some healthy options (there were plenty) with some of my faves, like the fried hash browns for lunch or the Mickey-shaped churro waffles (which were highly recommended by the whole staff).

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The author really enjoyed the dirty martini for $14.

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Of course, there are fancier options, like the Italian restaurant Palo, for which we couldn't get a reservation during our trip. That said, we spent plenty of time at the Keg & Compass pub because on the first night I discovered their vodka dirty martini, which was hands down the best one I've ever had (yes, including fancy New York restaurants). Cocktail prices varied from bar to bar, but this martini was $14, which seemed super reasonable to me.

Visiting Castaway Cay was key

Disney cruises in the Caribbean stop at Disney's private island, Castaway Cay. And for me, it was a key stop.

While I've been on a lot of boats growing up — my dad loves fishing — I still get seasick a lot. And while I was surprised by how little the cruise ship rocked, I could still feel it a little bit. So getting off the boat and having my feet on the sand was necessary for me.

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The author really enjoyed the adult-only section of Castaway Cay.

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I also love the ocean, and the Caribbean water is the perfect mix of temperature, color, and soft sand. My favorite moment was drinking a frozen piña colada with my friend while taking in some sunshine.

I appreciated that the island has an adults-only section called Serenity Bay, which was quieter and more relaxed than the family beach. There's a restaurant off the beach, too, so we were able to eat lunch between dips in the water.

The schedule was packed

While there were nonstop activities on the boat, I was often torn between wanting to do two or more overlapping things. For example, there was bingo one night happening at the same time as trivia. Given the option, I would've done both, because who doesn't love a bingo night? There was another day when you could make your own friendship bracelets, but I had already booked a facial, and that craft didn't repeat during our stay.

Because our main goal was to spend time together and relax, I felt I didn't do many of the interesting activities the boat offered. But I also get that that's the point; there's something for everyone at any given time of the day.

We didn't book things in advance

Being a newbie worked against me when booking extra activities. I wanted to surprise my friend with a couple's massage so we could destress, and I also wanted a facial.

By the time I went to book spa treatments (about a week before we boarded), there were very few time slots available. Next time, as soon as I book my trip, I'll be adding all the extras I want to maximize availability.

That said, we ended up getting our massage on embarkation day, which turned out to be the perfect way to smoothly transition from the chaos of mom life to vacation mode. And at $399 for both of us, it wasn't that much more expensive than the massages I get back in Maine. I booked my facial for 8 a.m., which felt a little early, but again was the only available time. If I were to do it again, I'd book the facial in the afternoon so as not to cut into pool time.

I overpacked and didn't have room for souvenirs

When I tell you I packed and unpacked my bag about 10 times before boarding, I'm not exaggerating. The Disney cruise hosted a pirate night and a Halloween party, and I wanted to be prepared for both. I also didn't know what to expect to want to wear on a cruise, so I overpacked by a ton.

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The author purchased a cruise-themed shirt that got so many compliments.

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This left me with very little room for souvenirs, which I still bought, but had to carry an extra tote bag back home. All the shops on the boat have different themes and therefore offer different stuff. I bought a Mickey-cruise-themed men's shirt that got so many compliments on the day I wore it. I also bought my kids pens and small keychain stuffies with their favorite characters.

We weren't the only adults without kids

My friend, who has more cruise experience than I do, insisted it wouldn't be weird for us to be on a Disney cruise without kids. And she was right. We weren't the only ones enjoying the adults-only areas, which included an ample pool deck with a jacuzzi, a small pool, a dedicated bar, and a coffee shop. There were also adults-only activities, like dance parties and trivia. And obviously, all the bars were for 21+.

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The author loved all the music trivia.

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While we only stayed at the adults-only pool deck, we could still hear the movies blasting for the family-friendly pool deck, which at times made it hard to relax. That said, when "Frozen" came on, both my friend and I were singing along (and probably annoying other adult guests).

We met a couple who were older than us who were on their 41st cruise. They found me adorable, being so excited about my first experience on board. They told me to get ready to become a cruise person, and they weren't wrong.

I had such a great time that I'm already planning when to take another Disney cruise, this time with my whole family. Disney Cruise Lines just announced a new ship called Believe, which will feature an "Encanto" stage show — which just happens to be my kids favorite Disney movie.

I cannot wait to see my kids' eyes go wide when they see how many things they can do, and for them to be ready to take a photo with their favorite Disney character, Daisy Duck.

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